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Tuesday, January 7, 2014

Ornaments for Adoption: Ornament for the Thigpens

Another successful year of Ornaments for Adoption has passed. I'm working on planning to get together with the Thigpens to give them the money raised. Then, I'll be able to let you know how it went and give you an update on their adoption. You can also keep up with their adoption on their new blog.

Just a Small Town Girl

For now, I want to share with you the ornament I made for them. Each year, I like to make a special ornament for the family to help them remember Ornaments for Adoption. Since the Thigpens are adopting from Ethiopia, I decided to incorporate that into the ornament. Then, my husband had a WONDERFUL idea. He said I should print out the names of all the people who bought ornaments and put that inside the Thigpens' ornament. I thought that was a great way to remind them of all the people who supported them. One day, they can show it to their child and it can be a part of their adoption story.

Printing out the names of all the families who bought ornaments or helped me make them:

Then I cut out each family's name, curled it, and put it in the ornament. There were SO many names. They barely fit. 

The front of the ornament says LOVE with Africa as the O.

The back says Ornaments for Adoption 2013.

I was so happy to give it to them and they loved it. I'm glad my husband apparently has a crafty side!

Monday, January 6, 2014

Eucharisteo: My Word for 2014

Last year, I came up with a mantra to focus on for the year. This year, I'm narrowing it down a little and following the crowd in just picking one word. One word to guide my year.

Eucharisteo

"give thanks"

I've written on this subject before and will probably write on it some more. It's a constant struggle. Life can be hard. We all know that. We've all had to deal with difficult times. How do we get through those hard times? How do we find joy even when things seem dark? 

I could write a long post complaining about everything that has gone wrong in my life. Complaining is easy. What's not easy is taking the time to give thanks even though we have so much to be thankful for. 

In 2012, I participated in a book club on Ann Voskamp's book One Thousand Gifts. I was a few chapters short of finishing the book and I would like to go back and read the whole thing. I did enjoy going back and reading my thoughts on the chapters I did read (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, and 7 if you're interested). This book goes right along with what I hope to focus on this year.

A few things led to me deciding to use this as my 2014 word. The first thing happened at church in December. During the sermon, the pastor said, "God doesn't owe us anything. What we have is His kindness." This really struck a chord with me. How often do I wonder why bad things are happening to me? How often do I think so highly of myself that I shouldn't be having to deal with this? I don't know why I think I'm so special. I know I'm not the only one who's guilty of this. Everything in this life that I have is God's kindness. It's by His grace that I wake up each morning. The God of the universe doesn't owe me ANYTHING. When I stop to realize this, it makes me want to thank Him for everything I do have. 

The second thing that helped me decide to use this word is Thanksgiving. I get very irritated at Thanksgiving with all the "thankful" posts. I know that's the point of Thanksgiving. My problem is that most people only take the time to be thankful one time during the year. Also, usually the things I see people being thankful for are very superficial. There's so much more we have to be thankful for. It kind of hit me recently, though, that I complain about it but I'm no better.

So, this year I want to take the time to be thankful. I want to be thankful for everything- the good and the bad. I want this attitude of thankfulness to result in joy. 

One way I've thought of remembering to be thankful is to dedicate my post on the last Thursday of each month to recounting the things I'm thankful for that month. It will be like having Thanksgiving every month. One link up that I used to be dedicated to was Dancing with Ashley's "Favorite Things." This link up took place at the end of each month and it was a time to share your favorite things from that month. Some months, I had a hard time coming up with my list, but I always did it. It was always a way for me to find the good. Ashley no longer hosts this link up, but I still need that monthly reflection. I've considered making my last Thursday of the month what I'm thankful for post a monthly link up. Any thoughts? Would anyone be interested in that?

Anyway...that's my word for the year. Eucharisteo. Give thanks.

Maybe I'll even get a necklace like this one from Eager Hands

What do you hope to focus on this year?

Thursday, January 2, 2014

December Book Review

Happy New Year!
I started writing book reviews at the beginning of 2013. I have enjoyed making my love of books a part of my blog and I only see that continuing to grow. My book reviews have consistently been some of my most read posts. I think I'm going to change things up a little bit for my reviews this year.

With the new year, it's always a good time to reflect on changes you want to make. So that's what I'm planning to do for my blog. This month I plan on sharing my word for 2014, my goals for 2014, a new monthly feature (possibly link up), and hopefully a new design. 

Until then, here is my last book review from 2013. These are the books I read in December.

The Song of Achilles by Madeline Miller

Book Description:
Greece in the age of Heroes. Patroclus, an awkward young prince, has been exiled to the kingdom of Phthia. Here he is nobody, just another unwanted boy living in the shadow of King Peleus and his golden son, Achilles. Achilles, 'best of all the Greeks', is everything Patroclus is not — strong, beautiful, the child of a goddess — and by all rights their paths should never cross. Yet one day, Achilles takes the shamed prince under his wing and soon their tentative companionship gives way to a steadfast friendship. As they grow into young men skilled in the arts of war and medicine, their bond blossoms into something far deeper — despite the displeasure of Achilles's mother Thetis, a cruel and deathly pale sea goddess with a hatred of mortals. Fate is never far from the heels of Achilles. When word comes that Helen of Sparta has been kidnapped, the men of Greece are called upon to lay siege to Troy in her name. Seduced by the promise of a glorious destiny, Achilles joins their cause. Torn between love and fear for his friend, Patroclus follows Achilles into war, little knowing that the years that follow will test everything they have learned, everything they hold dear. And that, before he is ready, he will be forced to surrender his friend to the hands of Fate.
Book description and image via Goodreads

My Review:
As I've mentioned on here before, historical fiction is one of my favorite things to read and I've always been fascinated with this time period of Ancient Greece. However, this story wasn't exactly what I was expecting. I have to admit I've never read the Iliad (except maybe an excerpt during college-not sure). So my familiarity with this story comes mostly from pop culture references and the movie, Troy. Let's just say I had a hard time reading the book because I kept imagining Brad Pitt as Achilles and in Miller's version of this story, Achilles and Patroclus are lovers. Which my quick internet research showed me that is the way some scholars interpret their relationship. Anyway, by the end of the story I had a connection to Patroclus and even though I knew what was going to happen, I was hoping it wouldn't. I think if you enjoy this time period or Greek mythology, you'll enjoy this book.

I give it 3 out of 5 stars.

Inferno by Dan Brown

Book Description:
In the heart of Italy, Harvard professor of symbology Robert Langdon is drawn into a harrowing world centered on one of history’s most enduring and mysterious literary masterpieces . . . Dante’s Inferno. Against this backdrop, Langdon battles a chilling adversary and grapples with an ingenious riddle that pulls him into a landscape of classic art, secret passageways, and futuristic science. Drawing from Dante’s dark epic poem, Langdon races to find answers and decide whom to trust . . . before the world is irrevocably altered.
Book description and image via Goodreads

My Review:
If you've read one book about Robert Langdon, you pretty much know what to expect. A lot of people give these books negative reviews because they all follow the same basic formula, however I'm pretty sure that's true of most series that use the same character in different situations for different books. I said all that to say, that I always enjoy Dan Brown's books. They're fast paced and fun. Plus I always feel smarter after reading one of these books. This one had a twist I wasn't expecting and I liked the element of Robert having lost his memory. One thing I didn't like was this book didn't really have a neat and tidy ending. I don't want to say much more about it so that I don't give anything away.

I give it 4 out 5 stars.

City of Bones by Cassandra Clare

Book Description:
When fifteen-year-old Clary Fray heads out to the Pandemonium Club in New York City, she hardly expects to witness a murder -- much less a murder committed by three teenagers covered with strange tattoos and brandishing bizarre weapons. Then the body disappears into thin air. It's hard to call the police when the murderers are invisible to everyone else and when there is nothing―not even a smear of blood―to show that a boy has died. Or was he a boy? This is Clary's first meeting with the Shadowhunters, warriors dedicated to ridding the earth of demons. It's also her first encounter with Jace, a Shadowhunter who looks a little like an angel and acts a lot like a jerk. Within twenty-four hours Clary is pulled into Jace's world with a vengeance, when her mother disappears and Clary herself is attacked by a demon. But why would demons be interested in ordinary mundanes like Clary and her mother? And how did Clary suddenly get the Sight? The Shadowhunters would like to know... 
Book description and image via Goodreads

My Review:
I've had this book on my "to read" list for a while now, but just never got around to reading it. While I was tracked out, I watched a lot of movies. One of the movies I rented was The Mortal Instruments: City of Bones. Overall, I enjoyed the movie and thought I'd give the book series a chance. It was a little weird reading a book when I'd already seen the movie, but once I got into it I saw that there were a lot of differences. I've read a lot of reviews on the book and A LOT of them are negative and there's apparently some big plagiarism/fanfiction controversy. I don't really care about all that and I'm not someone who analyzes literary elements and techniques. I read mostly for entertainment and I found this book entertaining. It has some of your very typical elements of a YA fantasy novel, but I found the dialogue to be pretty funny. I even laughed out loud a few times and that doesn't happen too often. I was thoroughly grossed out by the revelation in the ending (both of the movie and the book) and I'll get more into that in my review of the 2nd book.

I give it 4 out 5 stars.

The Light Between Oceans by M.L. Stedman

Book Description:
After four harrowing years on the Western Front, Tom Sherbourne returns to Australia and takes a job as the lighthouse keeper on Janus Rock, nearly half a day’s journey from the coast. To this isolated island, where the supply boat comes once a season and shore leaves are granted every other year at best, Tom brings a young, bold, and loving wife, Isabel. Years later, after two miscarriages and one stillbirth, the grieving Isabel hears a baby’s cries on the wind. A boat has washed up onshore carrying a dead man and a living baby. Tom, whose records as a lighthouse keeper are meticulous and whose moral principles have withstood a horrific war, wants to report the man and infant immediately. But Isabel has taken the tiny baby to her breast. Against Tom’s judgment, they claim her as their own and name her Lucy. When she is two, Tom and Isabel return to the mainland and are reminded that there are other people in the world. Their choice has devastated one of them. 
Book description and image via Goodreads

My Review:
I really enjoyed this book until the end. I wasn't satisfied with the ending. I feel like things could have been handled differently. It was definitely a book that made you think. It brought to mind the question- would you do something that you know is wrong if no one would find out and it would give you something you've always wanted? I can't sit here and say I probably would have done the same thing that Isabel did under the same circumstances.

I give it 4 out of 5 stars.

City of Ashes by Casandra Clare

Book Description:
Clary Fray just wishes that her life would go back to normal. But what's normal when you're a demon-slaying Shadowhunter, your mother is in a magically induced coma, and you can suddenly see Downworlders like werewolves, vampires, and faeries? If Clary left the world of the Shadowhunters behind, it would mean more time with her best friend, Simon, who's becoming more than a friend. But the Shadowhunting world isn't ready to let her go — especially her handsome, infuriating, newfound brother, Jace. And Clary's only chance to help her mother is to track down rogue Shadowhunter Valentine, who is probably insane, certainly evil — and also her father. To complicate matters, someone in New York City is murdering Downworlder children. Is Valentine behind the killings — and if he is, what is he trying to do? When the second of the Mortal Instruments, the Soul-Sword, is stolen, the terrifying Inquisitor arrives to investigate and zooms right in on Jace. How can Clary stop Valentine if Jace is willing to betray everything he believes in to help their father?
Book description and image via Goodreads

My Review:
This is the second book in The Mortal Instruments series.  **If you don't want any of the plot spoiled, you might want to stop reading this review.** I mentioned in my review of City of Bones that something from the story grossed me out. Well at the end of that book, the villain claims that both Clary and Jace are his children. Well, the problem is that they like each other and kissed once. Okay, well we can get over that fact. The problem comes in for me in this book when they continue to like each other, flirt, and KISS AGAIN. I have a feeling they're going to turn out to not be brother and sister (I could be wrong), but still....if you thought someone was your brother...you don't continue to have a crush on them. Other than that...I also enjoyed this book.

I give it 4 out of 5 stars.

Reconstructing Amelia by Kimberly McCreight

Book Description:
A stunning debut novel in which a single mother reconstructs her teenaged daughter's life, sifting through her emails, texts, and social media to piece together the shocking truth about the last days of her life.Litigation lawyer and harried single mother Kate Baron is stunned when her daughter's exclusive private school in Park Slope, Brooklyn, calls with disturbing news: her intelligent, high-achieving fifteen-year-old daughter, Amelia, has been caught cheating. Kate can't believe that Amelia, an ambitious, levelheaded girl who's never been in trouble would do something like that. But by the time she arrives at Grace Hall, Kate's faced with far more devastating news. Amelia is dead. Seemingly unable to cope with what she'd done, a despondent Amelia has jumped from the school's roof in an act of "spontaneous" suicide. At least that's the story Grace Hall and the police tell Kate. And overwhelmed as she is by her own guilt and shattered by grief, it is the story that Kate believes until she gets the anonymous text: She didn't jump.Sifting through Amelia's emails, text messages, social media postings, and cell phone logs, Kate is determined to learn the heartbreaking truth about why Amelia was on Grace Hall's roof that day-and why she died.Told in alternating voices, Reconstructing Amelia is a story of secrets and lies, of love and betrayal, of trusted friends and vicious bullies. It's about how well a parent ever really knows a child and how far one mother will go to vindicate the memory of a daughter whose life she could not save.
Book description and image via Goodreads

My Review:
I really enjoy books like this. Books that alternate between past and present telling you a story little piece at a time. It's like putting together a puzzle without knowing what it's going to look like in the end. The picture comes together slowly. It makes it hard to put down. I'm always trying to rack my brain to figure it out for myself. I'm usually not very good at it, but this story does have some good foreshadowing that I was able to figure out at least part of it. I liked everything except for the very end. It seemed too convenient and kind of a let down after everything else that had happened. Also, I feel like I say this very often when I read a book about teenagers, but do teenagers really talk like this? I don't remember people talking like this when I was a teenager. These novel teenagers have really dirty mouths and really dirty minds.

I give it 4 out of 5 stars.

City of Glass by Cassandra Clare

Book Description:
To save her mother's life, Clary must travel to the City of Glass, the ancestral home of the Shadowhunters - never mind that entering the city without permission is against the Law, and breaking the Law could mean death. To make things worse, she learns that Jace does not want her there, and Simon has been thrown in prison by the Shadowhunters, who are deeply suspicious of a vampire who can withstand sunlight. As Clary uncovers more about her family's past, she finds an ally in mysterious Shadowhunter Sebastian. With Valentine mustering the full force of his power to destroy all Shadowhunters forever, their only chance to defeat him is to fight alongside their eternal enemies. But can Downworlders and Shadowhunters put aside their hatred to work together? While Jace realizes exactly how much he's willing to risk for Clary, can she harness her newfound powers to help save the Glass City - whatever the cost?
Book description and image via Goodreads

My Review:
When I first started reading this book, I'm not sure what happened. I started to nitpick at the writing like many of the reviews I've read. I found certain things cheesy and familiar sounding-like I'd heard these lines before. I don't know what was wrong...maybe I was just in a bad mood. Then, the further I got into the book-the more I went back to being entertained and enjoying it. Originally the Mortal Instruments series was a trilogy, so this was the last book until the author decided to write 3 more books. Therefore, this one answered all the big questions and wrapped most things up. I enjoyed the way things turned out and I think I would have been fine if this indeed had been the last book. It's not, though, so I look forward to reading the next 3 books and seeing what happens.

I give it 4 out of 5 stars.

Have you read any of these books? What have you read lately?

Also, make sure you didn't miss my top 5 books read in 2013. I look forward to seeing what great books will make the list for this year!