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Tuesday, February 18, 2014

Llterary Junkies: February Edition

If you love to read, this is one link up you don't want to miss out on. I love answering these book related questions each month.

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1. What are you reading right now? Tell us about it!
I'm currently reading Wither by Lauren DeStefano. It's another dystopian YA trilogy. In this one, some genetic mistake has made it where all females only live to be 20 and all males only live to be 25. There are some people still alive who were around before this death sentence happened. The rich ones are trying to find a way to keep people alive longer and young girls are taken to be brides and bear children. The main character, Rhine, has been taken away from her twin brother to be a bride and she wants to find a way to escape. That's about all I know so far...

2. What books are on your bedside table at the moment?
By my bedside is George Muller: The Guardian of Bristol's Orphans and Pathways to the Common Core: Accelerating Achievement which are two nonfiction books I'm working my way through. I also have 3 copies of the Bible on my bedside table. One is my large study Bible NIV translation. Then, I also have 2 smaller Bibles in different translations. Lastly, I have several Bible study workbooks (too many to list here). Although, I will list my favorite one- By His Wounds You are Healed which is a study through the book of Ephesians.

3. Amazon recently released the 100 books to read in a lifetime.  What did they miss that you would add?
I definitely saw some on there that I wouldn't have included. Not that they're bad books, but I don't necessarily think they're the "top 100." The books I would add are coming more from a perspective of my beliefs. I would add the Bible, Kisses from Katie, Orphan Justice, and 7: an experimental mutiny against excess simply because those are books that have had a tremendous impact on my life. Outside of my beliefs, I would add Wonder. I think it is a book that everyone should read-children through adults. 

4. Are there any books being published in 2014 that you are anxiously awaiting?  If so, what are they?
I wouldn't say I'm "anxiously" awaiting any releases. I do want to read City of Heavenly Fire since I've read the previous 5 books in the Mortal Instruments series. Unless I'm reading an incomplete series, I'm not really one of those people who's up on the upcoming books. I usually find out about them after their already released.

5. Name the next 3 books in your To Be Read List (the ones you will be reading next on your list.)
I'm waiting on Serena and Labor Day to come in at the library, so I'm hoping to read those next. I also will be wanting to read the book that comes after Wither, called Fever.

Are you reading anything good right now? Are you waiting on something good to read next? 

Monday, February 17, 2014

Book Review: My Name is Memory

Synopsis:
Daniel has spent centuries falling in love with the same girl. Life after life, crossing continents and dynasties, he and Sophia (despite her changing name and form) have been drawn together-and he remembers it all. Daniel has "the memory", the ability to recall past lives and recognize souls of those he's previously known. It is a gift and a curse. For all the times that he and Sophia have been drawn together throughout history, they have also been torn painfully, fatally, apart. A love always too short. Interwoven through Sophia and Daniel's unfolding present day relationship are glimpses of their expansive history together. From 552 Asia Minor to 1918 England and 1972 Virginia, the two souls share a long and sometimes torturous path of seeking each other time and time again. But just when young Sophia (now "Lucy" in the present) finally begins to awaken to the secret of their shared past, to understand the true reason for the strength of their attraction, the mysterious force that has always torn them apart reappears. Ultimately, they must come to understand what stands in the way of their love if they are ever to spend a lifetime together.
Book synopsis and image via Goodreads

My Review:

Characters:
I didn't really connect with the characters. When I'm reading a romantic book, I want to fall in love with the man too. Unfortunately, Daniel just didn't make me swoon. I enjoyed the romanticism of what he was doing, but I didn't connect with him. I also didn't understand why Daniel had to come on so strongly. Why didn't he just make Lucy fall in love with him the good ole' fashion way instead of going right in with the "I've been in love with you in all my past lives" angle? There were some other things the characters did that didn't completely make sense, but I don't want to spoil anything by talking about those things too. 

Plot:
This book has so much potential and I really wanted to love it. I loved the idea of someone remembering their past lives and being in love with the same girl for over a thousand years and every life he tries to find her. Yet, for all of their lives things couldn't match up. Either one of them died too soon or one was a child while the other was an adult. However, I don't feel like it was done the best it could have been in this book. It took me a while to get into the plot as it was written. The first half was kind of boring and picked up for me in the last half.

Resolution:
What resolution?!? This book just ENDED! There was no kind of resolution. Do they end up together? Was everything they went through to get together worth it? Hope was hinted at for a happy ending, but we don't know. Something I read suggested that there might be a sequel and I sure hope so. This ending didn't set well with me.

My Grade:

I give it a B. Even though it didn't live up to its full potential, I still feel like it was a great love story.



Friday, February 14, 2014

Book Review: City of Fallen Angels & City of Lost Souls

 City of Fallen Angels Synopsis:

The Mortal War is over, and sixteen-year-old Clary Fray is back home in New York, excited about all the possibilities before her. She’s training to become a Shadowhunter and to use her unique power. Her mother is getting married to the love of her life. Downworlders and Shadowhunters are at peace at last. And—most importantly of all—she can finally call Jace her boyfriend. But nothing comes without a price. Someone is murdering Shadowhunters, provoking tensions between Downworlders and Shadowhunters that could lead to a second, bloody war. Clary’s best friend, Simon, can’t help her—his mother just found out that he’s a vampire, and now he’s homeless. When Jace begins to pull away from her without explaining why, Clary is forced to delve into the heart of a mystery whose solution reveals her worst nightmare: she herself has set in motion a terrible chain of events that could lead to her losing everything she loves. Even Jace.
synopsis and image via Goodreads


City of Lost Souls Synopsis:
What price is too high to pay, even for love? When Jace and Clary meet again, Clary is horrified to discover that the demon Lilith’s magic has bound her beloved Jace together with her evil brother Sebastian, and that Jace has become a servant of evil. The Clave is out to destroy Sebastian, but there is no way to harm one boy without destroying the other. As Alec, Magnus, Simon, and Isabelle wheedle and bargain with Seelies, demons, and the merciless Iron Sisters to try to save Jace, Clary plays a dangerous game of her own. The price of losing is not just her own life, but Jace’s soul. She’s willing to do anything for Jace, but can she still trust him? Or is he truly lost?
synopsis and image via Goodreads







My Review:

These are books 4 and 5 in The Mortal Instruments series. I reviewed the first 3 here. From my understanding, this series was originally a trilogy. Then, the author decided to extend it with 3 more books. The last one will be released in May. Since the story is continuous, I decided to review them together.

Characters:
I don't really have feelings about the main character Clary one way or the other. Undying, all consuming love always creeps me out. I don't think it's realistic for two people to meet and be head over heels madly in love with each other instantly. That's called infatuation, not love. I'm still also creeped out by the whole I still wanted you even though I thought you were my brother thing. I liked Jace better in the first 3 books. He was very funny with his snarky one liners. However, in these two books I found him annoying (particularly when he was with Clary). I liked Jace the best when he was with Simon. Speaking of Simon, he definitely wins the my favorite character from these books award. I like his loyalty to his friends and I found him the most relate-able. I enjoyed these stories the best when it was Simon's storyline. The villain in these books is Sebastian who I actually like as a villain. He was a much better and more interesting villain than Valentine (who was the villain in the first 3 books).

Plot:
You can definitely tell that there's a disconnect between the first 3 books and these 2. At the end of the 3rd book, there was resolution. The bad guys were dead and everyone was living happily ever after. Then for some reason, the author decided to extend the series. So, a new bad guy has to come along and things can't be as happily ever after as they seemed. In my mind, it's almost like reading 2 different trilogies. I think these books have good potential and would have been better if the author had planned out 6 books from the beginning and they all flowed. At times it felt like she was stretching for something to fill the pages of the books. Overall, they were entertaining which is mainly what I want a book to be.

Resolution:
There technically hasn't been a resolution yet. Each book ended with a little cliffhanger. I'm curious to see how it will all end in the last (unless she decides to extend it more) book. One thing they always bring up is how shadow hunters die young, yet no one important has died in the 5 books I've read so far. So, I'm curious if there will be any deaths in the final book.

My Grade:

I give them both a B.

**I've created an updated page about my book reviews and book challenges. Be sure to check it out to understand my grading system.**




Thursday, February 13, 2014

Snowpocalypse 2014

I know to those of you living in the north all of this may seem a little silly, but you have to remember that snow like this is not normal in the south. Plus, the south isn't prepared for snow like this.

About 2 weeks ago, we had a "big" snow. Schools closed for 4 days.

 Sidewalk completely covered
I thought this picture turned out beautiful with the sun coming up.

Well, we went through a week of normalcy but the snow has returned! It snowed for several hours straight yesterday. Once it started, I think many businesses decided to let their employees go. So, everyone was out on the road at the same time with snow coming down really hard. My husband was one of those people. A drive that should have taken 35 minutes took him almost 3 hours. Other friends shared how it took them 2 and a half to 4 and a half hours to get home. 

I'm glad he got home safely and we were able to go out together and play a little in the snow and take some pictures.

The fun part is...more snow is expected to start this afternoon. I don't expect to be back at work until Monday which would mean 3 more days of school missed.

So, I hope wherever you are you're staying warm. I'll leave you with some of our pictures from yesterday.

 Lee and I on our walk through the woods
The same bridge and pond from the earlier picture and then me making snow angels

 The snow was so fluffy and fun to throw
 We fed the geese
The road and sidewalk completely covered

Wednesday, February 12, 2014

2014 Book Challenges

Happy Wednesday!

I'm sitting at home because there's a possibility of snow and school is cancelled. This brings our total to 5 days of school missed that we have to make up on Saturday-one of the cons of year round school. I need to be productive, but I probably won't be. I made a trip to the grocery store last night to try and buy this edible, safe cookie dough I just found out about (as if I don't eat the kind of cookie dough you're not supposed to eat).


But the store was all out. :(


Sitting on my couch eating cookie dough sounded like the perfect snow day activity. I guess I'll have to settle for catching up on Shark Tank (my newest obsession) and maybe reading a few guilty pleasure romance books (which I'm about to make a trip to the library for).

Last year, I amazed myself by reading 79 books. This year, I am starting out with a goal of 50 (and I'm already behind). I'd love to read more and I'll raise the goal if I meet the 50 book mark before the year is up.

I also started participating in some challenges last year. Some of those I'm carrying over to this year, but I'd really love to challenge myself to complete them this year.

You can keep up with my challenges and read more about how I review books on my Bookshelf page.

Here are the challenges I'd like to complete this year. If they're carrying over from last year, I'm including what I've already done:

Goodreads Challenge: I set a goal to read 50 books. I hope I can raise that amount.


40 Book Challenge: This challenge runs through the school year. I gave this challenge to my students and I'm participating with them. I lack 14 books to completing it. Technically, I have read some of these genres this school year, but they've been children's books. I also have 2 books I'm currently reading that will finish out the biography/autobiography category and get me closer to finishing the informational text category.

Your choice - 10
Insurgent by Veronica Roth
Megan's Mate by Nora Roberts
Matched by Ally Condie
Crossed by Ally Condie
Reached by Ally Condie
Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend by Matthew Dicks
Fangirl by Rainbow Rowell
Defending Jacob by William Landay
Looking for Alaska by John Green
Allegiant by Veronica Roth
Mythology - 2
The Song of Achilles by Madeline Miller
Poetry Anthology - 1
Biography or Autobiography - 2
Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? by Mindy Kaling
Historical Fiction - 3 
Garden of Stones by Sophie Littlefield
The Dressmaker by Kate Alcott
The Ruby Brooch by Katherine Lowry Logan
Realistic Fiction - 2
The Devil Wears Prada by Lauren Weisberger
Wonder by R.J. Palacio 
Informational Text - 3
Pandora's Lunchbox by Melanie Warner
Mystery - 2
Out of the Easy by Ruta Sepetys
Fairy Tale - 1
A Tale Dark and Grimm by Adam Gidwitz
Folktale - 2
Tall Tale - 1
Fable - 1
Cultural - 5
And the Mountains Echoed by Khaled Hosseini
The Book Thief by Markus Zusak
The Color Purple by Alice Walker
Graphic Novel - 1
Fantasy - 2
Protector by Joanne Wadsworth
Warrior by Joanne Wadsworth
Science Fiction -1
Divergent by Veronica Roth
Newbery Honor or Winner - 1

50 State Challenge: I saw this challenge being done by other people. Some bloggers host this as a year long challenge, but I didn't link up. I decided to try and complete it in 2 years. I started it last summer, so technically I have another year and a half. However, I'd love to finish it this year. I've read books from 11 different states so far.




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  • Alabama- Looking for Alaska by John Green- finished 10/23/13
  • Alaska
  • Arizona
  • Arkansas
  • California
  • Colorado
  • Connecticut
  • Delaware
  • Florida Paper Towns by John Green- finished 11/11/13
  • Georgia The Color Purple by Alice Walker- finished 8/18/13
  • Hawaii
  • Idaho
  • Illinois Divergent by Veronica Roth- finished 7/21/13
  • Indiana
  • Iowa
  • Kansas
  • Kentucky The Last MacKlenna by Katherine Lowry Logan- finished 1/17/2014
  • Louisiana Phantom Evil by Heather Graham-finished 6/26/13
  • Maine Megan's Mate by Nora Roberts- finished 8/18/13
  • Maryland
  • Massachusetts Defending Jacob by William Landay- finished 10/5/13
  • Michigan
  • Minnesota Breadcrumbs by Anne Ursu- finished 11/1/13
  • Mississippi
  • Missouri
  • Montana
  • Nebraska Fangirl by Rainbow Rowell- finished 9/17/13
  • Nevada
  • New Hampshire
  • New Jersey
  • New Mexico
  • New York The Devil Wears Prada by Lauren Weisberger- finished 7/20/13
  • North Carolina
  • North Dakota
  • Ohio
  • Oklahoma
  • Oregon
  • Pennsylvania
  • Rhode Island
  • South Carolina
  • South Dakota
  • Tennessee
  • Texas
  • Utah
  • Vermont
  • Virginia
  • Washington
  • West Virginia
  • Wisconsin
  • Wyoming 

  • Alphabet Soup Reading Challenge: In this challenge, you try to read one book with a title starting with every letter of the alphabet. I just started this challenge, so I'm not very far.
    http://www.escapewithdollycas.com/challenges-2/2014-alphabet-soup-reading-challenge/
    A-
    B-
    C- The City of Fallen Angels- completed 1/27/14
    D-
    E-
    F-
    G-
    H-
    I-
    J-
    K-
    L- The Last MacKlenna -completed 1/17/14
    M-
    N-
    O-
    P-
    Q-
    R-
    S-
    T-
    U-
    V-
    W-
    X-
    Y-
    Z-

    I'm trying to keep it simple this year and very open so I can still read what I want without feeling trapped by my challenges. 

    Are you doing any book challenges this year? Are you challenging yourself to anything else this year?



    Tuesday, February 11, 2014

    Save Money with Makeup Saving Tips

    I hate paying a lot of money for stuff. I know there are some things worth splurging on, but for the most part I'm a cheapo. When I buy things, I want to get the most out of it. I'm the person who will continue to use foundation long after it's stopped pumping out. I try to use the stuff at the bottom by turning the bottle upside down or by scraping it with the part of the pump that goes down in the bottle.

    I was contacted by someone with the Home Shopping Network about sharing this post on tips for saving money by making your makeup last longer. There are some really great tips in there, but one especially caught my attention:

    4. Scrape the Bottom

    I recently discovered these little spatulas that you can use to actually scrape the bottom of your makeup bottles to get to the very end of them. I’ve also been known to use them after cutting open tubes of concealer and lip gloss to collect one final application. Brilliant!

    I know about "the little spatula" that she mentions. I was at a baby shower and one of the presents was The Spatty and Spatty Daddy. They are tiny spatulas that you can use to make sure you don't throw away and waste the product at the bottom of your shampoo, conditioner, lotion, makeup, food etc. bottles. Throwing away a bottle with product still in it is like throwing money away. This is one of those ideas where I go "why didn't I think of that?!"

     image via PRWeb

    I don't own one yet, but ever since the baby shower I've been wanting to buy one. I think they're a great idea for me to have as well as a great gift idea for both wedding and baby showers. I'll be sure to update you once I get one and let you know how I like it. 

    One of the coolest things about this product to me is that it was featured on Shark Tank and even though she didn't get a deal on the show, it didn't stop her and I believe she has a successful product on her hands.  



    Be sure to check out the rest of the ideas over on HSN's page.  

    Do you have any money saving tips for your beauty products?

    Monday, February 10, 2014

    Happy Birthday Love

    Today is Lee's birthday. We have been through 8 of his birthdays together now.

    It's kind of sad how little attention we pay to birthdays now that we're adults. Life is just so busy. Plus we're getting to the age where we don't like to be reminded that we're getting older.

    For us, our birthdays also come so soon after Christmas. Lee's is today and mine is the 25th of this month.

    This year in particular, his birthday really snuck up on me. I look back at year's past where I surprised him.

    One birthday while we were dating, I surprised him with a day at the beach and a helicopter ride at sunset.

    Two years ago, I undertook a 30 day countdown until he turned 30 where he got 30 different presents leading up to his 30th birthday. I wrote a whole post about it. It was a lot of work!

    This year, I have nothing special planned. I'm working today and he's working until later tonight.

    So, I decided spur of the moment to celebrate last night. I cooked one of his favorite meals (which was a great surprise since I haven't cooked in a LONG time). I made his favorite cake (yellow cake with chocolate frosting). We had a nice dinner at our table (which is sadly becoming something we never do anymore). Then, I took him to see The Lego Movie. He may have just turned 32, but he's still a kid at heart who loves his legos.

    So, this post really has no purpose other than to say how much I love my husband.We have not had an easy time since we've been married. We've been through a lot that most people our age haven't experienced. However, I wouldn't want to be going through life with anyone else. Lee is a Godly man, a hard worker, a caring and thoughtful person, and a great encourager. He is strong where I am weak. I love him on days when he's happy and fun and I love him on days when he's being annoying and irritable. I look forward to many more years together!


    Thursday, February 6, 2014

    My 7 Favorite Book Endings


    On Tuesday, I shared 7 books that I thought were good until I got to the end. So, today I thought I'd share 7 books that I thought had great endings.


    *Warning: Possible Spoilers Ahead*

    Dear John by Nicholas Sparks
    First of all, the movie RUINED it when they changed the ending. I think the ending of this book is beautiful. It doesn't end happily ever after, but it shows selfless love which is what love should be. This is my favorite Nicholas Sparks' book and I think I love it so much because of the ending.

    The Time Traveler's Wife by Audrey Niffenegger
    This is another story that you need to read the book and not just see the movie. The book has a beautiful ending and I would have loved to have seen it on the big screen. Of course, they changed the ending and made me mad. The book goes through the romance of Clare and Henry. Henry is able to travel through time, not that he can control it. He can travel into the past and the future. Before he dies, he leaves his wife a letter saying that he will see her again one day. She spends the rest of her life in anticipation of that one more time she knows she'll get to see her husband. How sweet is that?!? I was in tears reading it.

    I feel like I'm repeating myself, but the movie ruined the ending of this story as well. The movie made the story all about the sister with cancer. The book was all about the sister who is the donor. The ending of this book completely shocked me. I didn't see it coming at all. Some reviewers hated the ending because they feel like it was a cop out. I feel like it evoked an emotion, even if that emotion was anger. It was frustrating that the younger sister went through so much to not have to donate anything else to her older sister only to end up a dead organ donor.

    Suzanne's Diary for Nicholas by James Patterson
    I'll start by saying that I read this book a long time ago, but it stuck with me. I read it in a day and I was crying like a baby in the end. The ending may be more obvious for an older reader, but for me as a teenager (when I read it) I didn't see it coming at all. I also feel like the big reveal was done so subtly that it added to the shock. 


    Garden of Stones by Sophie Littlefield
    This book was on my list of top 5 books I read in 2013 and I also think it deserves to be on this list. I love how this book was historical fiction (one of my favorite genres) combined with mystery. There are a couple of murders in this book-one in the very beginning. I spent most of the book trying to figure out who was the murderer and why. I also loved how the book jumped between the present and the past giving you little pieces of information at a time. I was definitely surprised by the revelations along the way.

    A Walk to Remember by Nicholas Sparks
    This is one of the only books that I read after watching the movie. I loved the ending more after I read Nicholas Sparks' autobiographical book, Three Weeks With My Brother. In that book, he explains how things that happened in his life inspired his stories. A Walk to Remember was inspired by his sister's battle with cancer. His original plan was to have the main character, Jamie (who also had cancer), die in the end. Because his own sister was battling cancer, he couldn't bring himself to end it that way. So instead, he leaves the ending open to your interpretation. I thought that was a neat way to end the story and it was very touching how it related to his sister.

    Like the previous book on this list, this is one of the only books I read after seeing the movie. The book ends very much like the movie. I like it because it doesn't end happily ever after. It leaves a lot of room for speculation about what happens next. It's even a little frustrating not knowing how everything turns out because the story just kind of ends. I have even adopted my own Scarlett O'Hara philosophy of dealing with my stress-“I can't think about that right now. If I do, I'll go crazy. I'll think about that tomorrow.” 

    What is one (or more) of your favorite book endings? 



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    Tuesday, February 4, 2014

    7 Good Books with Bad Endings

    image via Dump a Day

    That's exactly how I feel when I'm reading a book or a series and I'm really enjoying it then the ending ruins everything. So, I thought I'd put together a list of books that I remember enjoying until I got to the end. 


    *Warning: Possible Spoilers Ahead*


    Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn
    This was one of the most popular books of 2012. I jumped on the bandwagon and read it. It was a page turner with lots of unexpected twists. I really enjoyed the alternating point of view. I liked how the narrators were unreliable. I was eager to see how it would all turn out.  Then, I remember reading the ending and thinking WHAT?!? After reflecting, I realize it was a dark ending to a dark book and I see how it works. However, in the moment, I was not pleased with the way it ended. I will say, though, I am interested to see how it translates to film.

    Inferno by Dan Brown
    I really enjoy Dan Brown's books. I like the sweeping mystery adventures and how the main character, Robert Langdon, always figures things out at the last minute and saves the day. This book read like the rest of the Robert Langdon books until the end. Robert figures things out and rushes off to save the day, except the day doesn't get saved. He doesn't get there in time. It left me with a bad feeling. I didn't like that things were left unresolved.

    Reconstructing Amelia by Kimberly McCreight

    This was one of those figure it out as you go books. In the very beginning, Amelia dies by falling from a roof. The police rule it a suicide, but this doesn't sit well with her mother. The story goes through her mother putting together the pieces of what happened to her daughter through emails, texts, Facebook posts, etc. We also get to read flashbacks from Amelia. This book was hard to put down because I wanted to figure everything out. Then, I get to the end and I finally find out what happened to Amelia and it didn't seem to fit with everything else that had happened in the book. I thought it was a bad explanation for her death. 

    Nicholas Sparks' books are definitely guilty pleasure books. Some of his books are some of my favorites. Others miss the mark. This one missed the mark in my opinion. The beginning of the book was enjoyable enough. It was a classic Nicholas Sparks' novel with two people who were high school sweethearts rekindling their romance. The bad news is that the woman in this situation was married with kids. So, she decides she can't leave her husband and put her kids through a divorce. I can live with that. I'm not always about "happily ever after" endings. I like realistic endings. But the book wasn't over yet...it ended with the cheesiest of all cheesy endings (in my opinion). It was completely predictable and made me upset.

    This book involves a doctor falling for the mother of one of his patients. Of course, the doctor is married and the whole book plays out how bad their marriage is and makes you dislike his wife. You sympathize with the mother and I was rooting for her and the doctor to end up together. Surprisingly enough, their affair was not very physical. I liked that because it made me believe they truly cared for one another and weren't just lusting after each other. In real life, I would never condone cheating. In a book, I want to be entertained and don't worry about my morals. The ending ruined this book for me because it seemed out of character. Out of the blue, the doctor just changes his mind, breaks it off with the mother of his patient, and decides to stay with his wife. I could have dealt with that ending if it hadn't seemed like a complete 180 from where the book was headed.

    Matched Series by Ally Condie
    This is a trilogy and I really enjoyed the first book. It was such an interesting premise and really made me think. It takes place in a society where everything is decided for you from the food you eat, to the job you do, to the person you marry. It's done this way so that you live the optimum life and don't make bad choices. In this story, there's a glitch in the system and the main character falls in love with someone who is not her match. I should have just stopped reading after the first book. The next two were so boring! I had to MAKE myself finish them. The second book seemed kind of pointless. It was like a filler. The third book dealt with a rebellion and trying to change their society. You had so much information thrown at you and then in the end, everything works out perfectly for everyone. So convenient.  

    Divergent Series by Veronica Roth
    Just like Matched, this one is a trilogy where I loved the first book. This one involves a society where people are divided into factions where a different virtue is prized in each one. In the first book, we are introduced to this world and follow Tris as she goes through initiation in her chosen faction. I read this book in less than a day. Insurgent is the next book and gets us started in a rebellion against the faction system. I enjoyed this book, although not as much as Divergent. I couldn't wait for the last one to come out because Insurgent ended with a cliffhanger. Then, I read the last one and it kind of ruined the series for me. The thing that happens in the very end that bothered a lot of people didn't really bother me. Other things bothered me. Number one- it was boring. Next, we were given WAY too much information to try and make sense of. Allegiant seemed different from the other two in terms of the way it was written. We had dual narrators in that we now had Tris and Tobias' point of view. This made me dislike Tobias a lot. I didn't like or connect with their relationship. I lost interest in the characters so much so that (**SPOILER ALERT**) I didn't even care when Tris died. When a main character dies, it should have me in tears.

    ---------> Come back on Thursday when I share books with my favorite endings. 

    What's a book you were really loving until you read the end? 

    Monday, February 3, 2014

    An Abundance of Stuff

    I have to be honest. A part of me really wants to take an indefinite break from blogging simply because I have so much going on in my life right now. Blogging just feels like one more thing on my list of things to do. When I do write a post, I don't feel like I have the time to put into promoting it. Then, I don't have the time to put into reading other people's posts. I can tell my blog is suffering for it. BUT...I don't want to take a break because I have things I want to share and ideas for posts. So, I'm going to try to keep at it. Just know that I may not post consistently; and I may not respond quickly to emails. I'm also doing my best to try and read your posts.

    Anyway...one of those things keeping me busy is the fact that we moved to a new apartment. We still live in the same city. We've been wanting to move and looking for a while now, but nothing seemed right. I think this apartment we finally found is going to suite our needs perfectly, though.


    We had some complications with moving and it has been quite a process. We moved completely by ourselves minus about 4 hours that we hired movers to help move furniture and bigger, heavier stuff. (Sidenote: Movers are amazing! If you can afford them, hire them!) The time we were moving was during the Great Southeastern Snowstorm 2014. It snowed quite a lot for the south. Things shut down for a few days and school (aka my job) shut down for the whole week. This gave me more time to move, but because I'm at a year round school we have to make up 4 days on Saturdays now. {insert pouty face here}


    I learned something while trying to move all of our stuff by myself- we have a lot of stuff! Too much stuff! One of the things we loved about this new apartment is that it has a storage room where we can keep all our extra stuff. I figured out many years ago when my grandmother passed away and my family had to sort through and do something with all of her stuff that you really can't take it with you when you go. That inspired me to try and not have too much stuff. Then, last year I read 7: An Experimental Mutiny Against Excess by Jen Hatmaker. That inspired me even more to reduce the amount of stuff we have. I'm a cleaner and an organizer. So at least once a year, I go through every room and clean out, get rid of, and reorganize things.


    Even with all those things in mind and cleaning out our stuff on a regular basis, we still have too much stuff. Now I'm going to go ahead and call my husband out and say that a lot of our extra stuff is his stuff. Much to my annoyance, he gets very attached to things and doesn't want to get rid of them. I mean...we live in an apartment and he has 2 axes and a chainsaw. He has NO reason to be cutting things down. But I digress...

    We moved our necessities at the beginning of the week and still had car load after car load of extra non-essential junk. A picnic basket we might use once a year. A beach umbrella we might use once every other year. A keyboard I might feel like playing. Golf clubs for my husband who I have never in the 7 years we've been together seen play golf. It was very eye opening.


    It made me think about people in this country and other countries who have a fraction of what I have. It made me think about missionaries who get rid of most of their belongings to move to another country and serve the Lord. It made me think about orphans and children in foster care whose belongings can fit in one bag. It made me think about people who've lost their belongings in a fire or natural disaster.

    That helps put things into perspective. It's just stuff. More stuff than the majority of the world has. Yet, we're always wanting more and better stuff. It's ingrained in us that we don't have enough or the best. We're never satisfied. It's really sad actually.


    So as I've been moving this past week, I realized that I have more stuff than I really could need in a lifetime. I need to remember that when I think I want something else or something new.

    I don't really know how to end this post. I feel like I could ramble on and on about this. It kind of makes me wish I lived in a time when life was simpler and people weren't as materialistic.

    What about you? Do you feel like you have too much stuff? Do you think it's okay to have a lot of stuff?