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Wednesday, July 31, 2013

July Favorite Things

I hope you had a good July. Mine went by quickly. It's probably because my school year started this month. I've been busy!


Today, I'm linking up with Dancing with Ashley for Favorite Things. Here are my favorite things from July:

1. My school year has started off well. Starting a new school year always make me a little nervous. You don't know what your new class will be like. So far, so good. I hope it's going to be a good year. I'm 3 weeks in already.


2. I found a new book series to love. (Book Review will be up on Friday) This is a trilogy and the last book will be coming out in a few months. Plus they're making it into a movie which will be released next year.

3. We celebrated our 3 year anniversary. I took the day off to spend time with Lee. We didn't do anything "special." We just hung out and spent time together which is all I wanted.

4. I'm participating in my first ever book challenge and I'm loving it. It's helping me continue to do a lot of reading this year. You can visit my book challenge page to see how I'm doing.

5. Lee and I have found a couple of new shows to enjoy together. We've been watching Under the Dome which will only run through the summer. It's based on a Stephen King book by the same title. Lee also started watching The Following and it got me hooked as well.


What's your favorite thing from the month of July?

Tuesday, July 30, 2013

10 Tips for an Organized Home

I love to keep things organized. Sometimes I'm a little OCD about it. I think you just feel better when your home is organized. So, here are my top 10 tips for keeping your home organized.
 (Thanks to a couple of my sweet sponsors for helping me create this list!)


1. Have a place for everything.
The first step to having an organized home is having a specific place for your things. It's important to be consistent with this so that everyone in the house knows where to find items when they're needed and where to put them when they're finished with them. You even want to make sure to have your medical supplies organized and handy like Erica from We Three Crabs shares in this post.
We created a space on the wall in our closet for our hats.

2. Put things back where they go when you're finished with them. 
This is the easiest way to keep your home organized. When you finish with something, don't leave it out. It takes a few seconds to put something back where it came from. (This tip was also shared by Cody from Catching Cody K)
My husband has trouble with this one as you can see by the shoes that clearly don't belong on the floor.

3. Clean out at least once a year.
Figure out a time of year that works best for you. I usually do this in the spring time. Whatever time you choose, at least once a year you need to go through each room in your house. As you go through, get rid of things you no longer need or use. Also, organize or reorganize the things you decide to keep.
You can read about how I cleaned out my closet and my pantry this past year. 

4. Create a meal menu and grocery shopping system.
To keep from buying food you don't need, create a menu of meals you want to make that week or month.
You can read more on how I plan my meals here. 

5. Keep your paperwork organized.
Families can accumulate a lot of paperwork. In my opinion, binders are the best way to organize papers. Erica from We Three Crabs wrote a great post on her family's binder. Right now we keep our important paperwork in an accordion file, but my plan is to organize it all in a binder soon. We also keep a binder for all our receipts we may need for tax purposes. We have it organized into different sections such as household items, school items, items I buy for work, etc.


6. Bins, boxes, and baskets are your friend.
It can be a little costly to get enough of these to begin with, but it's worth it. My suggestion is to buy a few at a time. Having things in bins, boxes, or baskets just makes your house look so much more organized and streamlined.

7. Do a little bit every day rather than trying to do it all in one day.
It's so easy to let housework pile up. Yet, this makes it harder to get it done. Rather than letting the housework pile up and trying to do it all in one day, create a cleaning schedule. Each day do a few things that need to get done. In my opinion, this also helps keep your house cleaner on a daily basis. (This tip was also shared by Cody from Catching Cody K.)
Wash dishes after cooking each meal to prevent dirty dishes piling up. I also have a certain day of the week when I wash clothes and when I put them up.

8. Keep a calendar.
Even in this day of advanced technology, I like to have some things down on paper. That includes my schedule. I keep a calendar on our refrigerator and I have a planner that I carry back and forth between home and work. It's easier to keep up with and remember things when they're right there in front of you. If you're a blogger, Cody from Catching Cody K highly recommends a calendar to keep up with your blog posts schedule and ideas.

9. Use items in unusual ways.
Be creative in your organization. A shoe box can be used to hold medicine bottles. A hanging shoe organizer makes a great organizer for a pantry or laundry room.  Utensil baskets can be turned into a spice rack. Think outside the box for cheap organization ideas.


10. Use labels and color coding.
I love putting labels on things-especially things that are in closed in boxes. It makes it so much easier to find what you're looking for without having to open everything up. Have things labeled also helps with tip #1 and #2. When things are labeled, they have a place and people know where to put them. Color coding is also a good organization system. I personally use color coding on my calendars. Different colors mean different types of events.

How do you keep your home organized? 

 Top Ten Tuesday at Many Little Blessings

Tuesday, July 23, 2013

My Top Ten Glee Songs

When Glee first came out, I loved it. It made me laugh and I love music so this show was so much fun to me. I have great memories of watching this show weekly with my roommates. During our breaks from college, me and my friends had "Glee nights" where we worked through watching the entire first season.


Many times, they would sing a song and I'd immediately be on itunes trying to buy it. In my opinion, the show slowly went downhill after season 1. They forgot that they were a comedy and tried to be a drama hitting on any major issue they could think of. However, I couldn't make myself stop watching. I still enjoyed the musical aspect of it. Maybe it's because I wish I could sing and dance like that. Maybe it's also because I secretly wish we could burst out in song in real life.

With the recent passing of Glee star Cory Monteith, I've been listening to my Glee music and it had me thinking about my favorite song moments. Today, I'd like to count down my top 10 favorite songs from Glee.

10. Like a Virgin
Starting off my countdown is this song from their Madonna episode. So, this scene is about...well...losing your virginity, but what makes me like this song is the way it's done. It's so well directed. I love how it flows from one couple to the other. (FYI: This video isn't good quality and I don't know what's said at the beginning, but the song is in English.)


9. Like a Prayer
Another Madonna hit continues my countdown. I love belting out this song along with the cast. Then, when the choir joins in-heavenly.


8. Toxic
This was from their Britney Spears' episode which made me laugh a lot. It was a prime example of the absolute silliness that made me enjoy Glee. This song was a surprise at the end with the glee club being joined by Mr. Schuester whose voice is perfect for this song in my opinion. 


7. Take a Bow
This was the episode where I became very jealous of Lea Michele's talent. She really portrays the emotions of the moment during this song. This song takes place after Finn and Rachel kiss, but then he goes back to Quinn.


6. Fly/I Believe I Can Fly
Mash ups are so much fun. This is my favorite. They blend the two songs perfectly. Plus hearing "I Believe I Can Fly" takes me down memory lane to when that song first came out. This was one of those rare moments in the later seasons where we got to catch a glimpse of the Glee we fell in love with.


5. Don't Stop Believing
I don't think you could count down Glee songs without including this one. This is THE song from Glee. I love this glee club version. It's fun to sing along to. In honor and memory of Cory/Finn, I'm posting the version of the song that Rachel sang for her audition in the last season. I thought this was genius. It made me tear up then and it makes me tear up even more now.


4. Smooth Criminal
This song was on their Michael Jackson tribute episode. I'm pretty sure I hit the rewind button and watched this again right away. The vocals are great and the tension is felt, but the true stars of this song are the cello players.


3. Against All Odds
There weren't really any songs from this past season that stuck out to me except this one. I think Darren is an amazing singer and he's playing the piano-bonus!


2. My Life Would Suck Without You
Near the top of my list of all time favorites from Glee is this moment. This song represents all the things I loved about this show. This song was at the end of the winter finale before the show went on its halfway break. They are doing all the different dance moves from various songs they have already sang. It's like reminiscing on all the fun moments from previous episodes. Then, in the end, when Mr. Schuester is running after Emma...I remember being so excited for that moment.


1.  Keep Holding On
This song is without a doubt my favorite Glee moment. This song came after the news broke to the school that Quinn was pregnant after Rachel had tried to keep word from getting out. The song is perfect and the actors do a great job showing the emotion of the moment.



There were plenty of other great music moments and I had a hard time narrowing it down to just 10.

What are your thoughts on the future of Glee? Do you have a favorite song from the show?


Top Ten Tuesday at Many Little Blessings

Monday, July 22, 2013

A Tale of Two Birthdays

"It was the best of times, it was the worst of times, it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness, it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity, it was the season of Light, it was the season of Darkness, it was the spring of hope, it was the winter of despair…"
 (A Tale of Two Cities by Charles Dickens)


Dickens starts his famous novel with very opposing ideas. In the same way, our lives look very different from people who live in other parts of the world. Let me tell you of a day that this became startlingly clear to me. 

Allan's Birthday
My husband and I sponsor a sweet little boy in Ecuador through Compassion. He writes us the sweetest letters and I'd love to get to meet him one day. We can't send him presents, but we can send extra money at his birthday if we wish. 


After his birthday one year, he wrote us a letter thanking us for the money we sent. He then told us how he'd used the money to buy himself a pair of shoes. He included a picture of himself proudly holding his new shoes. As you can see from the picture at the beginning, these aren't the newest and coolest tennis shoes. They are practical black shoes. Shoes that most kids would have to be forced to wear. This is what he bought with his birthday money.

An American Child's Birthday
Shortly after reading Allan's letter and looking at the picture, I got on Facebook. One of the stories on my home page was a new album that had been uploaded with pictures from a child's birthday party. This party had it all. The theme could be seen throughout from the decorations to the snacks to the entertainment. A place had been rented. Food had been perfectly prepared and arranged. Decorations had been made and put out. A form of entertainment had been paid for. Presents were stacked high from the child's family and friends. I don't have to give too many details because I know you've seen these pictures too. The party I'm describing could belong to any American child on any given day.


Two Different Lifestyles
Allan's story is not unique. We also sponsor a girl named Malaiyarasi and her letters after her birthdays are similar. She uses the money to buy herself a new dress or her mom a new pot. This goes on while I sit around and listen to people I know discuss what they'll get a child for a birthday party they've been invited to. They usually end up deciding to just buy something for the sake of buying a gift and because they don't know what else to get.

What a waste of money! What do you get a child who has more than they'll ever need? A toy they'll barely touch. I know from my own childhood we had more toys than we could ever play with. What's the point of that? Couldn't that money be better spent on something else. Why do we ask people to buy gifts for children who already have more than they need while there are children in this world who DON'T have the basic necessities of life?!? There's something wrong with that.


Envious Lifestyles
Not only are Americans in general spoiling their kids more and more while children are dying daily by the thousands, but this type of lifestyle lends itself to a lot of envious feelings. Even though I don't have children of my own, I sense that these parties are a competition for many parents. Who will have the best party? Who will have the most original theme? Who will have the cutest decorations? Who will have the fanciest cake? Who will have the most fun entertainment? Of course, not only will the people who attend the child's party know what the party was like, but pictures will also be posted on various forms of social media. If you're crafty enough, you may also blog about your party ideas in hopes that they'll become popular pins on Pinterest. That way, some other parent can be "inspired" to step up their game for their child's next birthday party.

In Conclusion
Please understand that I'm not saying that I think it's bad to celebrate a child's birthday. I think it's important to let a child know that they are loved and special. It's also important to let them know that you value the day they came into the world.

What I am asking is, what are you teaching your child is valuable? Are you teaching them that the world revolves around them? Are you teaching them that they need a lot of stuff to be happy? Are you teaching them that it's important to impress others? Would you consider finding a way to celebrate your child's life and help children that are less fortunate?

Similarly, I thought this article was really good about discussing"first world problems."




Thursday, July 18, 2013

Literary Junkies July Link Up

So...I know it's not Tuesday, but I liked the questions and wanted to participate this month.
By the Porchlight

1. What are you currently reading? Tell us about it.
Currently, I am reading The Devil Wears Prada by Lauren Weisberger. You may have seen the movie (as I have), but basically it's about a girl who dreams of being a writer for a magazine. She takes a job as the assistant to the editor of a famous fashion magazine and her boss is difficult to work for (if you can't tell by the title).
2. What book first made you fall in love with reading?
Honestly, I don't know. I don't remember a time when I didn't love to read. I grew up seeing my mom read all the time and we had a lot of books in our house and visited the library often. The first book I remember "reading" was The Berenstain Bears and the Spooky Old Tree. I say "reading" because it was very repetitive and I had it memorized rather than actually reading it.
3. Summer is a great time for series.  What are your series recommendations?
I really enjoy series. You really "get to know" the characters, but it's so hard when they end. Of course, I love Harry Potter. It's my favorite. I also love the Mark of the Lion series.
4 Does a song come to mind with the book you are currently reading? If so what it is?
The best thing I can think of is "Mean" by Taylor Swift because the boss in the story is not a very nice person.

5. Are you participating in any summer reading challenges?
Yes. I'm participating in the Semi Charmed Summer Reading Challenge and The Devil Wears Prada is my book set in a state I've never visited. I'm also doing a 40 Book Challenge along with my students and will count this book I'm currently reading as a realistic fiction. I'm also slowly trying to do a 50 State Challenge and my current read will take care of New York. You can see all my challenges here. 

You Can't Go Home

Yesterday was our 3 year anniversary. So in a couple of weeks, it will have been 3 years since I moved away from Alabama to North Carolina.


When you move away from home, things will never be the same. People who've lived in one place their whole life don't understand this.


I got a little taste of this when I went to college. I've written about it before, but basically several of my friends didn't go away to college or they were still in high school when I went away to college. When I went home, I kind of got depressed because everyone had just went on with their life while mine had changed.

Moving to NC was really hard. I'd lived in the same small town my whole life and had pretty much had the same friends. Most of my family lived in the same town as me also. Saying good-bye was dificult and of course everyone promises to keep in touch.

Well, here's what happens- everyone goes on with their life without you. I know that sounds very self-centered, but that's not how I mean it. Of course, I don't expect everyone's life to change because I leave. It's just difficult because my life changed so much. I spent so much time on Facebook looking at what everyone was doing and being sad because I was missing out.

The first time I went home, I got together with all my friends and it was like old times. Over the next few visits, though, the number of people who made time to see me got slimmer and slimmer. Until now, I only see a few people when I go home to visit.

People change. People grow apart. It's a sad reality of life. It's one I've had to learn how to deal with because my friends have always meant a lot to me. I feel unable to relate to people in my hometown sometimes because I've experienced so many new things. I live in a bigger city now. I've experienced diversity that you don't get in a small southern town. I don't view the world the same way anymore.  I don't mean to sound like all small town people are narrow minded because I know that's not true. I just mean that my way of thinking has changed while the way of thinking of most of the people I know has stayed the same.
Our few years of marriage have also been far from a "honeymoon" stage. We've moved twice. We've both lost our job. We both have worked stressful jobs. My husband gets sick at least every other month. When he gets sick, he stays that way from anywhere from a week to a month at a time. While he's sick, he doesn't eat; he doesn't get out of the house; and he doesn't act like himself. We've accumulated great hospital debt and doctor visits debt. There are other things we're dealing with that I don't feel like mentioning. I'm not trying to complain because I know these things are shaping us into who we are, but none of my friends can relate to these things. 

Today, it's easier than ever to keep in contact with people; yet, we're busier than ever so we don't. I'm also the type of person who's going to only try for so long. I don't like one-sided friendships. It's hurtful when you have to find out big news on Facebook from someone you considered a good friend. However, you learn to get over it. One of the hardest things I've had to do is come to terms with the fact that my best friends that I've had my entire life aren't really my good friends anymore. Even though they'll always be important to me and I'll always be here for them if they need me, our days of real friendship are over.

Recently when I go back home to visit, I just feel like a stranger. Even though, I love seeing my family and the people I'm still close to, I'm always just ready to get back to the place I now consider home. My parents don't understand this and they get their feelings hurt if I try to talk about it.

I know this post may sound like rambling and if you've never experienced any of these feelings, you don't know what I'm talking about. Basically, I just needed to get these feelings out there. I've been battling these thoughts and feelings for a while now. I know I can't be the only person who's experienced this. 

If you read this randomness, thanks! I'd love to know if you've ever experienced this or what your thoughts are on growing up and growing apart from people. 


Tuesday, July 16, 2013

40 Book Challenge

My school year started this past week and this year I'm trying out the 40 Book Challenge which is an idea from The Book Whisperer by Donalyn Miller.


Why?
The idea really isn't that revolutionary. Basically, the best way teachers can help students become better readers is to give them plenty of opportunities to read. We should help foster a love of reading. Reading shouldn't be a chore that is done just because you're going to have to answer some questions about the book for a grade. I loved the idea of this challenge because I love to read. One reason I believe this is true for me is because I grew up with a mom who read all the time. I saw her reading daily. She also read to me and with me. We had plenty of books in our house plus we went to the public library regularly. I can't control what happens in my students' homes, but I can give them opportunities to fall in love with reading in my classroom.
 

Who?
I've issued this challenge to ALL of my students. The best part is it's differentiated for you because each student reads books that are "good fit" books for them. I'm also participating in the challenge along with my students.


What? 
Each child is challenged to read 40 books during the school year. They can't just read any 40 books, though. They're also challenged to read books across many different genres. I chose genres that went along with things we study throughout the year plus a few more thrown in there for fun.

How?
Each student will keep a 40 Book Challenge log in their binder. As I conference with them throughout the year, I will discuss with them the books they've read and sign off on their log if I can tell they read the book and it was a good fit book.


After I sign off on their log, they can add a sticker to our class log. At the end of the year, I want us to be able to count up how many books our whole class read throughout the year.


We are spending the first few weeks going over the different genres and taking notes. The students will keep these notes in their binder as a reference throughout the year. 


I also gave them a sheet to keep a list of books they're interested in reading. I hope to do weekly "book commercials" where my students can share books they've enjoyed with their classmates. I hope this will improve their ability to summarize, persuade, and speak publicly.


The main thing to remember is the point of this challenge is not to take a grade or to actually read 40 books. The point is to have students reading entire books and books across different genres. The hope is that they'll learn to love reading if they don't already. I plan to celebrate all of my student's achievements in this challenge.

If you'd like to know more, I'd encourage you to read The Book Whisperer. You can also check out my class website's 40 Book Challenge page. If you'd like to know more about what I plan to do or if you'd like a copy of any of my resources, let me know in the comment section (just be sure you're not a no-reply blogger or I can't respond to you).

Linking up here:
Inspire Me Tuesday,  Take a Look Tuesday, Time to Sparkle, Terrific Tuesday,
On Display Monday

Monday, July 15, 2013

Bloggers who Inspire

I made a great blog friend when I participated in a scarf and scripture swap last fall. Kera from Nugget on a Budget is currently preparing for her second nugget who will be arriving soon. I'm talking about Kera today because she was so kind as to nominate me for the Very Inspiring Blogger Award.
This award means a lot to me because my mission behind blogging is to inspire people. Thank you so much Kera for this award. I find your blog very inspiring as well!

As with all awards, here are the rules.
1. Display award logo on your blog.
2. State 7 things about yourself.
  3. Nominate 15 bloggers for this award and link back to them. (15-holy cow! that's a lot! I'll nominate 5-check them out, they're awesome!)

7 Things about ME:
*Warning: These are super random. I'm terrible at these things.*

1. I am a 4th grade teacher at a year round school. I love the year round schedule!

2. I currently don't have any children. Obviously, I would like to have biological children one day, but I also want to adopt.

3. I love to read and this year I'm challenging myself to read more books and to read a greater variety of books. Currently, I'm working through these challenges.

4. Fall is my favorite season. I like the cool weather, the colors, the leaves changing, football, festivals, and all the other fun things fall brings.

 
5. Here are 3 skills I wish I had: sewing, dancing, speaking Spanish.

6. I'm currently obsessed with this covers album by Christian band, Anthem Lights. They do acoustic covers of pop songs such as Justin Bieber's "As Long as You Love Me" and Demi Lovato's "Give Your Heart a Break." They also do a mash up of several popular songs from 2012. You definitely want to check it out.

7. I'm super jealous of people who can harmonize. I secretly wish I could sing well enough to be in an a cappella group.

I Nominate:
This blog has a lot of inspiration in it from your marriage to health and fitness to great recipes. My favorite inspiration is how she always has Bible verses to go along with her posts. She even takes on mean comments inspirationally (not that that's a real word).

This is another great blog for marriage inspiration. Like right now, she's going through her 13 Dates of Summer. How fun!

This blog inspires me because Natalie's funny, plus she's not afraid to call it like she sees it. Even when her opinion's may seem controversial or against what the "cool kids" are doing.

Annie from The Ranting Latina
This smart lady aspires to get her doctorate. If that's not inspiring enough, she's also very proud of her heritage and culture and defends it from negative stereotypes.

Cody from Catching Cody K
I enjoy finding fellow bloggers who love to read as much as I do. Cody has been a great inspiration as I work through my Summer Reading Challenge. I love to read her book reviews.

So, there you have 5 blogs that I find inspiring. I hope you'll go visit the posts I linked and their blogs.



*Sidenote: I finally organized all the blogs I follow on Bloglovin' into categories! Yay me! Are you following me over on Bloglovin? If not, you should be! :)

Tuesday, July 9, 2013

Keeping up with the Joneses

Today's social media makes it easy to compare ourselves to others. You can easily see who's getting married, has a great job, is buying a house, or is having children. People post pictures of their fashionable outfits and their delicious dinners. You can see all the photos from the fun vacations people take and the new TV, phone, car, grill, shoes, etc. that someone just bought.

I know I can be guilty of comparing my life to the lives of others. This can get frustrating because to be honest, our life since we've been married hasn't really gone according to plan. Despite all that, I'm content with our life. I'm happy and trying to take each day as it comes. All of that often goes out the window, though, when I get on a social media site. Unfortunately, social media has become such a part of our lives that I can't make myself not check it. I even can be guilty of comparing my life to the lives of bloggers I follow.

I know this is a natural thing that all people do. However, I recently found this quote on Pinterest and I try to keep it in mind when my thoughts are threatening comparisons.


Each of our lives are different. We also don't know everything that's going on in a person's life. People can choose what they share on social media. Things probably aren't always as perfect as they seem. Rather than comparing our lives to others, we should focus on enjoying and living OUR life.

How do you deal with the feeling of "keeping up with the Joneses" that comes from social media?

Monday, July 8, 2013

13 in '13 Halfway Update

The year is halfway over. As promised, I'm updating on my goals every other month.

13 Goals for '13

1. Make my blog more about me and less about "what everyone else is doing." {Read details here.}
I took my first blog break. I'm posting when and how I want to, not because I have to. I'm only doing button swaps right now. My blog hasn't really grown any this year, but I'm trying not to think about that and to simply blog because it's something I enjoy doing.

2. Cut down on excess in my life. I will be reading Seven: An Experimental Mutiny Against Excess by Jen Hatmaker and I would like to participate as I read. {Read details here.}
There are really no new changes to this since my last update. I'm more aware of the things I'm buying, eating, using, etc.

3. Read through the rest of the New Testament. {Read details here.}
I've done terrible with this and I could give excuses for this, but I won't because they're not good enough. I should have been reading my Bible on a more regular basis. I did do a Bible study on Ruth, so I got off my NT reading to do that study. However, I've gotten back into the habit and I've been doing much better in the last few weeks. So, I feel good about the last half of the year. 

4. Read a chapter from Psalm and/or Proverbs every Friday. {Read details here.}
My update on this one is pretty much the same as #3. 

5. Plan each month's meals in advance. Look for new recipes and cook a variety of things. Eat out less! {Read details here.}
I'm doing good with planning our meals and trying out new recipes. Because I'm trying to eat more fruits and vegetables, I'm having to get used to grocery shopping more. We're not doing so good with the eating out less part. This is mainly my husband's fault. I would eat out a lot less if it wasn't for him. 

6. Write a letter every other month to the children we sponsor through Compassion, Alan and Malaiyarasi. {Read details here.}
I haven't done great with this. There's no excuse for it because with their new online feature, I can type letters and have them sent right away. 

7. Read at least 40 50 books. At least 10 of those books should be nonfiction. At least 5 of those books should be classic novels. {Read details here.}
I upped my goal to 50, but I still think I have a good chance of exceeding that. I have also already read 10 nonfiction books. The only part of this goal that I'm struggling with is the 5 classics. So, I'm keeping the goal the same, but I'm going to start participating in book challenges. I even have a Book Challenges page at the top of my blog now. One of those will be finished in a few months, but the other two will carry over into next year. You can check it out to see what I'm challenging myself to do. 
8. Get healthy. Exercise at least 4 times a week. Make healthier food choices. {Read details here.}
I feel like I'm doing really good with this goal. With school out for a month, I've been able to get into a better workout routine and I hope to continue it once the school year starts back up. I've also cut out a LOT of the stuff I used to snack on. I'm keeping more fruits and vegetables in our house. I'm also continuing to try and cut out processed food. It's a slow process because I do want it to become a lifestyle change, not just a fad. 

9. Create the budget with my husband and stick to it! {Read details here.}
It's halfway through the year and I haven't even attempted this one! I hate dealing with money. 

10. Go on at least 2 intentional dates a month. Have 2 nights a month that are technology free. {Read details here.}
We've yet to do a technology free night, but we are using technology A LOT less. I never turn on the TV just to watch. I only turn it on if one of my shows is on. I also am on the computer a lot less. We're both trying to be more aware of how much we use technology. We're doing good with our dates and spending time together as well. In the next few month, I want us to get back in the habit of eating our meals at the table. 

11. Do at least 10 things that I pinned on Pinterest. (Read details here.)
According to my last update, I had completed 5 Pinterest projects. With a new school year coming up, I've done several more that I plan on writing about soon.

12. Learn how to effectively use my DSLR camera. (Read details here.)
There's nothing new to report here. I did learn some new things about it, but because I have not practiced them regularly, I've forgotten a lot of it. I think I'm going to make myself a notes page next time I do some research. That way I can keep it in my camera bag and remember the things I learned. 

13. Create a cleaning schedule (AND STICK TO IT) so that the house gets cleaned little by little throughout the week instead of me having to clean all weekend. (Read details here.)
I've created a schedule, but I'm having trouble with the "sticking to it" part. I never feel like doing anything when I get home from work although I know my life would be easier if I did a little something every day instead of letting it pile up for me to have to do on the weekends. 

So, what about you? Did you make resolutions or goals this year? Are you sticking to them? 

Friday, July 5, 2013

Things that will make you SALTS

Happy FRIDAY!!!! 

This was my first week back to work after my summer track out. My new students will be here on Monday. It's time for some laughter...

  How true is that?!? I mean how often do you really laugh out loud? 

 In honor of school starting back. This is how kids can play school these days. What fun!

   Amen! I know I've mentioned on here how much I love to be comfy!

JTT was my first celebrity crush. 

Ok. I'm pretty sure I really did LOL when I saw this. "My milkshake brings all the boys to the yard..." 

Lastly, I want to congratulate Kanye and Kim on the birth of their baby, North {West}. Maybe when I have a child, I'll name it Deck the {Hall} or City {Hall} or Great {Hall}. Do you have any suggestions?


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Have a great weekend!


Tuesday, July 2, 2013

June Book Review: Fiction

Summer is one of my favorite times to read. I was off work this past month so I've had plenty of time for it. So much so, that I broke my book review for June into two parts. 

Today, I'm sharing the fiction books I read this past month. Yesterday, I shared the nonfiction books I read. 

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The Lost Symbol by Dan Brown

                                                                     Book Description:
The Lost Symbol (Robert Langdon, #3)Famed Harvard symbologist Robert Langdon answers an unexpected summons to appear at the U.S. Capitol Building. His planned lecture is interrupted when a disturbing object—artfully encoded with five symbols—is discovered in the building. Langdon recognizes in the find an ancient invitation into a lost world of esoteric, potentially dangerous wisdom. When his mentor Peter Solomon—a longstanding Mason and beloved philanthropist—is kidnapped, Langdon realizes that the only way to save Solomon is to accept the mystical invitation and plunge headlong into a clandestine world of Masonic secrets, hidden history, and one inconceivable truth . . . all under the watchful eye of Dan Brown's most terrifying villain to date. Set within the hidden chambers, tunnels, and temples of Washington, D.C., The Lost Symbol is an intelligent, lightning-paced story with surprises at every turn--Brown's most exciting novel yet.
Book description and image via Goodreads.

My Review:
While I know that Dan Brown's books follow a very similar "formula," I still always enjoy them. This was the first book, I can mark off my summer reading list. Dan Brown's books always get me very curious and I end up Googling a lot of stuff. This is the 3rd book about the character, Robert Langdon. To me, these books are very hard to put down. Even though they're thick, I keep reading because I want to know how it's all going to turn out. I have to admit, this one had a good twist at the end. There was also one spot that had me very concerned for the main character. If you're a fan of Dan Brown's previous novels, I think you'll enjoy this one too. Just don't go in expecting something new and different.

I give it 4 out of 5 stars.

Heart of the Matter by Emily Giffin

Book Description:
Heart of the MatterTessa Russo is the mother of two young children and the wife of a renowned pediatric surgeon. Despite her own mother's warnings, Tessa has recently given up her career to focus on her family and the pursuit of domestic happiness. From the outside, she seems destined to live a charmed life. Valerie Anderson is an attorney and single mother to six-year-old Charlie--a boy who has never known his father.  After too many disappointments, she has given up on romance--and even to some degree, friendships--believing that it is always safer not to expect too much. Although both women live in the same Boston suburb, the two have relatively little in common aside from a fierce love for their children.  But one night, a tragic accident causes their lives to converge in ways no one could have imagined. In alternating, pitch-perfect points of view, Emily Giffin creates a moving, luminous story of good people caught in untenable circumstances. Each being tested in ways they never thought possible. Each questioning everything they once believed. And each ultimately discovering what truly matters most.
Book description and image via Goodreads.

My Review:
**If you want to read this book, you might want to skip my review. There are some spoilers in it.**
Let me start by saying that cheating is bad. In real life, I would not take the side of someone who was cheating. But...in a novel....my morals are looser I guess. This is the story of two women. Tessa is married to a doctor whose patient's mother is Valerie. Valerie develops a relationship with Tessa's husband. In my opinion, the author makes you sympathize with Valerie and dislike Tessa. You see that Tessa's marriage was falling apart even before the affair. You see the doctor and Valerie falling in love and for the most part, their relationship isn't even physical. I was rooting for this cheating couple! The whole book builds up this bad marriage and this new love that is forming. THEN, without warning, the doctor breaks it off with Valerie, confesses everything to his wife, and after she gets over her initial anger-they stay together. The ending tries to emphasize grace and forgiveness. It didn't seem believable to me. Not after everything I'd just been reading for the last 300 pages. I really enjoyed this book until the end. The end ruined it for me. By the way, if you've read Giffin's book (or seen the movie) Something Borrowed,  Tessa is Dex's sister. Dex and Rachel are in this book. I didn't realize the connection until I was reading someone else's review.

I give it 3 out of 5 stars.

Lucky Penny by Catherine Anderson

Book Description:
Lucky Penny (Keegan-Paxton #5)To support her orphaned niece, impoverished Brianna O'Keefe accepts work with a Colorado rancher. To guard herself from the unwanted attention, she resorts to a harmless little lie: that she's married to a Denver gold miner named David Paxton. When her boss forces her to write her "husband," hoping he'll take Brianna off his hands, she can only pray that there is no real David Paxton who can expose her.When Colorado marshal David Paxton gets a letter from a stranger claiming to be his wife and pleading with him to come for her and his daughter, he dutifully sets out to find this woman and the child he may have sired. What stuns Brianna is that David is convinced the young girl is, in fact, his. As David and Brianna's wary attraction blossoms into deeper desire, David warms to the idea of a ready-made family. But can his dream survive Brianna's lingering distrust --- and his own secrets?
Book description and image via Goodreads.

My Review:
It has been a long time since I've simply read a pointless, just for fun romance novel. I really enjoyed this one. It was a perfect, light summer read. I actually hadn't even planned to read this one, but I was leaving my parents' house to go to the airport and realized that I had nothing to read on my flight home. Then, I remembered that my mom has a small romance novel library in her closet. I went in there and borrowed this book from her. It was definitely predictable (what romance novel isn't?). It had your handsome, romantic leading man. It had your beautiful (although she doesn't know it) woman with a past. It's set in the romanticized old west. What's not to love?

I give it 4.5 out of 5 stars.

Phantom Evil by Heather Graham

Book Description:
Phantom Evil (Krewe of Hunters, #1)
A secret government unit is formed under the oversight of Adam Harrison, famed paranormal investigator. The six members he's gathered know a little of the otherworldly—each has honed a psychic talent of their own.Jackson Crow, part English, part Cheyenne, heads the group. Haunted by his experience with an ancestral ghost who saved his life as a child, and the recent murders of two previous teammates, Jackson can't tell if Adam's demoted him or given him an extraordinary opportunity. Despite his link to the realm of spirits, he's well aware that the living commit the most heinous crimes, with spiritualist charlatans existing merely to fool and seduce the unwary. To counterbalance Jackson's careful skepticism, Adam Harrison has paired him with Angela Hawkins, a young woman who learned the painful lesson of loss at an early age. A police officer utilizing her paranormal intuition in Virginia, she already has her hands full. But Adam's call to New Orleans is strong. The case: In a historic mansion in New Orleans's French Quarter, a senator's wife falls to her death from a balcony. Most think she jumped, distraught over the loss of her young son. Some say she was pushed. And yet others believe she was beckoned by the ghostly spirits that inhabit the house—once the site of a serial killer's grisly work. Whether supernatural or all too human, crimes of passion, greed and desire will cast the pair into danger of losing their lives…and their immortal souls.
Book description and image via Goodreads.

My Review:
This seemed like a really good premise for a book and I love a good mystery. However, I was very disappointed. I'm usually not one of those people who's really critical of literary stuff. I just like to read books for the pure fun of it, but the dialog in this book was bad. If I notice it and it bothers me, it can't be good. The way they were talking was cheesy and didn't seem realistic. It also seemed like they were repeating themselves or over-sharing information. The characters were underdeveloped and the 2 main characters were madly in love and sleeping together within two days. It was very unbelievable. I think this plot had potential and as usual, I had a hard time putting it down because I wanted to know whodunnit. In the end, though, I don't highly recommend this book.

I give it 2 out of 5 stars.

The Lost Years by Mary Higgins Clark

     Book Description:
The Lost YearsIn The Lost Years, Mary Higgins Clark, America’s Queen of Suspense, has written her most astonishing novel to date. At its center is a discovery that, if authenticated, may be the most revered document in human history—“the holiest of the holy”—and certainly the most coveted and valuable object in the world. Biblical scholar Jonathan Lyons believes he has found the rarest of parchments—a letter that may have been written by Jesus Christ. Stolen from the Vatican Library in the 1500s, the letter was assumed to be lost forever. Now, under the promise of secrecy, Jonathan is able to confirm his findings with several other experts. But he also confides in a family friend his suspicion that someone he once trusted wants to sell the parchment and cash in. Within days Jonathan is found shot to death in his study. At the same time, his wife, Kathleen, who is suffering from Alzheimer’s, is found hiding in the study closet, incoherent and clutching the murder weapon. Even in her dementia, Kathleen has known that her husband was carrying on a long-term affair. Did Kathleen kill her husband in a jealous rage, as the police contend? Or is his death tied to the larger question: Who has possession of the priceless parchment that has now gone missing? It is up to their daughter, twenty-eight-year-old Mariah, to clear her mother of murder charges and unravel the real mystery behind her father’s death. Mary Higgins Clark’s The Lost Years is at once a breathless murder mystery and a hunt for what may be the most precious religious and archaeological treasure of all time.
Book description and image via Goodreads.

My Review:
I really enjoy Mary Higgins Clark's books which is why I picked this one off the library shelf. This one did not disappoint. Any time I read a mystery book, I try to figure it out, but I'm never right. Well, my detective skills must be improving because I actually figured this one out. There were a lot of characters to try and keep up with. I guess that is sort of needed in a mystery, though, so that you don't just instantly figure it out. I did like how the story was told from different characters' points of view. It helped keep things interesting. If you like mysteries, you would probably like this book.

I give it 3 out of 5 stars. 

What have you been reading lately? Have you read any of these?

Did you see the summer book challenge I'm participating in? It's not too late to join in the fun.